Wabi Sabi Relationship Coaching Richmond Hill, Ontario

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The phrase Wabi Sabi was first introduced to me by my husband. He was reading Arielle Ford’s book Wabi Sabi Love; The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships. Instantly, when he explained to me what Wabi Sabi meant I was intrigued and sought more information. I was curious about how I could relate this to our own relationship and then on how this concept could be of service to my Coaching Clients. Wabi Sabi is not a destination it is a way of being and although its' Japanese origins associates it with aesthetics and material items, over time the concept has been appropriately linked to the beauty art, architecture and love. The beauty lies in the imperfection. No relationship is perfect but the standards of Western culture have many of us trapped into believing that the perfect relationship is out there. The perfection that you seek is only found in the imperfection that you are willing to accept, embrace and celebrate. As a Coach I use Relationship Intelligence tools and strategies to support the relationship you have with your significant other or the relationship you have with yourself, to achieve your own version of Wabi Sabi People come together and form relationships, during the "rose-colored-glasses" phase there is so much positivity and things can often appear better than they really are. This is a normal stage of the beginning of relationships and actually having a level of idealization about your partner is not necessarily harmful. There are some aspects of romance and sex that has a fantasy element to them and according to research studies individuals do find something appealing about avoiding the harsh reality of what is actually before they’re very eyes. Over time, the rose coloured glasses lose their tint and all flaws are fully visible and the relationship takes on new meaning. The focus on your partners’ faults and all the minor irritations are now seen as the cause of any challenges within the relationship. You begin to create a relationship myth that begins with “if only my partner would change________ then we could have a better relationship”. As part of this relationship myth you begin to tell yourself that your partner has changed and they have become someone you don't like, don't know and can't tolerate. Relationship Coaching gives you the space to be with all of your imperfections and support you in developing positivity, increased self-esteem and greater awareness of your needs . The greatest gift you can give yourself is learning how to be in relationship with yourself and through this increased awareness you are better able to be in relationship with others. The rose coloured glasses analogy is a good one because at some point you have to ask the question did my partner change or did you just take off the pair of rose colored glasses. Relationships can be challenging and Relationship Coaching reveals to you where you relationship is currently at and through this process you are then able to me more truthful about YOURSELF to YOURSELF. So if you don't know how to; Resolve Arguments Heal patterns of conflict Make your partner safe enough to open up Keep intimacy alive and stay connected to each other Understand and appreciate your parnters difference Then Relationship Coaching can provide you with the tools to immediately improve your relationship. The beauty of Relationship Coaching is that there are no geographic restrictions. If you have access to Skype we can begin, similarly if you are in close proximity to Wabi Sabi offices, face-to-face coaching is an alternative option. Please explore www.wabisabicoach.com for more details about what Relationship Coaching can offer you.

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